The Love Leader® Live Experience is a high-touch evening that gives you a taste of what our Couples Retreats offer year-round — through a shared meal, real coaching, and an experience you can't get from a feed. Love Leader® Live is built exclusively for intentional Black Couples navigating love, life and relationships.
- New York
- Dallas
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You have done everything right.
Now, try this.
The career. The degrees. The therapy. You have invested in every part of your life. But nobody ever handed you a real, skills-based operating system for love. That is not your fault. It ends here.
Tired of guessing what differentiates good couples from great couples
You are showing up. You are putting in the effort. But something keeps not landing — and you cannot name exactly why. Love Leader® names it and then provides answers.
Repeating the same patterns in different settings
Different names. Same movie. The 3 Imposters — Your Thoughts, Your Ego, Your Story — are running the show. We are going to expose them and give you tools to shut them down.
Ready, but without the tools or the roadmap
You feel it — you are ready for healthy love. What you have been missing is the framework. The Love Leader® method gives you that exact roadmap.
Looking for couples who actually get it
High-achieving. Intentional. Doing the work. You are not looking for a generic couples seminar — you want a room full of couples who are on your level.
Nobody in your circle is talking about this
Your friends love you. But they are not equipped to help you build a roadmap for love, legacy and power. You need more than brunch advice — you need a community that is doing the actual work alongside you.
And you have never been given the curriculum — until now.
One evening. Three transformations.
You need to know what stage of the love journey you are in before you can know what it requires of you. Most people at Stage 1 are wondering why their love is not producing Stage 4 results. Clarity changes everything.
Love literacy is a skill set. You were never taught it, so you are not bad at love — you are untrained. As you learn and practice the tools, your confidence in your own love expression grows. That is the work.
Studies show it takes 3 years to recover from a bad relationship. But when you learn to vet better and move through every stage with intention, that timeline shrinks dramatically. You are in control.
In one evening, you will finally have:
- ✦ Your exact stage on the WLWD 5-Stage Roadmap to Relationship Success — so you know where you are and what comes next
- ✦ The 3 Imposters that have been causing 'outages' in your connection and in your love life — Your Thoughts, Your Ego, Your Story — unpacked and transformed with this love practice
- ✦ Your Love Stages Quiz results — taken live in the room — and what they reveal about your starting point
- ✦ A room full of couples who look like you and are doing the love work alongside you
- ✦ A copy of Love Literacy by Cullen & Elitia Mattox
A 3-hour experience designed to move you to the next level of love
Arrive, mingle, get settled. Welcome mocktail. Music. The kind of energy that tells you immediately — this room was built for you.
Dinner is served while Host & Coaches set the tone for the evening. No fluff. Couples feels seen in the first three minutes. The 5-Stage Roadmap is introduced visually and emotionally.
Core teaching from Chapters of Love Literacy. Interactive — your reactions, your notes, and then your tools and practice. This is the moment it clicks.
Take the WLWD Love Stages Quiz in real time. Results revealed, explained and unpacked in the room. This is where clarity begins.
Structured small-group conversation based on Quiz results and Session 1 discussion prompts from Love Literacy Companion Guide. This is where the community is built.
Open floor. Raw, real, emotionally resonant. The moment the room bonds with WLWD Coaches, Mindset and Framework. Nothing scripted. Everything earned.
Your next step is introduced. VIP Book signings begin. The photographer captures the room. You leave with tools, community, and your book.
Choose your experience
- Full 3-hour Love Leader® Live Experience + Dinner
- Live Love Stages Quiz with results + debrief
- Facilitated table discussion with couples in your season
- Q&A with Cullen & Elitia Mattox
- Everything in The Author's Table, plus:
- Love Literacy Book + Notebook Bundle ($59 retail) included
- Priority front-section seating + Priority book signing access
- Custom swag
Meet the Dallas Team
A couple who worked with WLWD before their own "I Do" and made sure their daughter was reading Love Literacy before starting her own love journey.
Newly engaged and soon to be married, this Chef Couple is bringing the same intention to the kitchen that they're bringing to their own relationship. Chef John is showing up as a Love Leader to ensure this is the healthiest and best love he's ever had.
The book has already changed lives.
Imagine the room.
Chapter six is eye-opening because it re-frames courtship as a process. Allowing 'one hurt to have the floor' has been a communication game changer — it allowed us to resolve and grow from issues instead of compounding them.
The Love Literacy book is a game changer. It's filled with perspective and descriptive gems that bring awareness to my dating while preserving the enjoyment during the getting-to-know-each-other phase — intentional but interesting.
I can't believe how many times I've had to read and reread Chapters 1 and 4. Where was this information, like 10 years ago? It reframes everything I thought I knew about relationships.
As I read, I felt like I was taking a direct shot. This book is straight, no chaser. It cuts right through everything comfortable and gives you exactly what you need to hear.
Love Literacy provides an honest and refreshing take on lifetime partnership — explaining that enthusiasm and chemistry alone are not enough. It gives you permission to readjust and learn the tools necessary for healthy love.
I have a pep in my step knowing that my tribe, my partner, and my opportunities are already aligned and waiting for me. This book lets me continue the journey with confidence and peace.
Is your city on the list?
Three cities. One mission. Limited to 20 couples. Dallas is confirmed for Sunday, Oct 4, 2026. Join the waitlist for your city to get early-bird access before tickets go public.
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Waitlist members get 48-hour early-bird access before tickets go public — and a free Love Leader® Relationship Goals Worksheet the moment you sign up.