Dating Isn't The Problem.
Your Process Is.

Most successful professionals bring strategy, preparation, and intentionality to their careers.

But when it comes to dating...they're expected to "follow their heart" and hope everything works out.
The truth?

Healthy relationships aren't built by chance.

They're built by people who know how to choose wisely, communicate clearly, establish healthy boundaries, and recognize character before commitment.

That's exactly what you'll learn in the Love Leader® Dating Lab.

The Solution:
Love Leader® Dating Lab

This Isn't Match-Making
This Isn't Traditional Dating Coaching.

This is an immersive dating residency created by coaches who've spent over a decade disrupting the status quo of unhealthy relationships and designed for intentional professionals ready to become the kind of person who naturally attracts and recognizes healthy love.

3 Phase Immersion: DISCOVER ➡️ PRACTICE ➡️ FIELDWORK
 

Inside the Love Leader® Dating Lab You'll Learn To:

  • Date with confidence instead of confusion

  • Recognize character, not just chemistry

  • Realtime support with Fieldwork and Guided Dates

  • Communicate with clarity; Establish healthy boundaries

  • Build a repeatable dating process you trust

  • Move toward commitment with intention

Venis, Physician

When you do your work within yourself, you'll see the rewards in your relationships. You'll find that love truly works; but you have to do the work.”

Tamara

Newly Engaged, 2026

DISCOVER

  • Know Yourself before choosing someone else.

  • Relationship Profile

  • Love Literacy® Book

  • Dating Blueprint

  • Communication Coaching 

  • Dating Profile Optimization

  • Conflict, Detachment Rehearsal

PRACTICE

  • Apply your blueprint through intentional dating.

  • Guided Dating Experiences

  • Coach Debriefs

  • Voice Notes

  • Journal Entries

  • Text Support

  • Concierge Planning

FIELDWORK

  • Learn relationship skills during dates, and you'll practice them alongside WLWD coach in real-world environments where relationships naturally begin.

  • Develop confidence, social awareness, discernment, and authentic connection, real-time

Four Private Coaching Sessions

Relationship Fitness Audit

Relationship Fitness Audit

Relationship Fitness Audit

Dating Profile Optimization

Conflict, Detachment Rehearsal

Up to Eight Guided Dates

Love Leader® Fieldwork Experiences 

Four Journal Entries

Love Leader® Dater Cert

The Dating Lab is one step in the Love Leader® Journey; a path thousands have walked from single to secure.

Dan & Danielle

"We love y'all. Please know we probably wouldn't have made it if not for WLWD." Danielle "The classes worked and we put in the work! Now we have a beautiful daughter." Dan

Rukayatu, IP Lawyer

"I was wondering, is it possible for a relationship to stay this happy and healthy? Sure! We are really good. We are discussing ways to simply live the life of our dreams."

Nicole & Tywon

"I'm so happy I decided to do this work with Tywon! Everything is just lining up!" Nicole "We are blessed to have each other and grateful that we have you WLWD as our Love Mentors that support us." Tywon

  • Are successful professionally but want the same intentionality in your dating life

  • Are tired of repeating unhealthy dating patterns

  • Are ready to stop guessing and start dating with clarity

  • Believe healthy relationships require healthy skills

  • Are willing to practice—not just learn

We Know This Work Because We Did It Ourselves.
Before we became relationship coaches, we were our own first clients.

We had to learn how to date, vet better, communicate differently and healthier, navigate conflict quickly, understand our patterns and intentionally build the courtship and relationship we wanted.

That experience became the foundation for the work we now teach others.

Since 2013, we've continued refining the process through our work with individuals, couples and Love Leaders® who wanted more than inspiration; they wanted tools they could actually use.

The Love Leader® Dating Lab is the evolution of that work for intentional daters to vet, choose and enjoy love.

Based in New York City, husband-and-wife relationship coaching team Cullen & Elitia Mattox co-founded WhenLoveWorks Dynamically to create Love Leaders—relationship first responders who have the tools to build, repair and sustain the healthy love relationships they deserve.

Your Investment

DATING LAB                       $9997 or 3 pay plan

Four private coaching sessions, guided dates, fieldwork experiences, your personalized roadmap, 

90 days of guided support.